I am finding it increasingly difficult at night to get my husband to come to bed. A carer comes in and gets him washed and into his pjs. But when it comes to actually going to bed he puts up a lot of resistance - shouting, searing, hitting out. I've tried leaving him and then coming back 10 mons later but it's still the same. This can go on for an hour easily. I don't want to go to sleep leaving him up and moving about. Any suggestions would be appreciated.