Thank you all so much for your kind words of support and advice. I really do appreciate it.
I'm just back from the CH in question - it is THE most wonderful place - all CHs should be like this one (and I've seen quite a few now!). I would unhesitatingly move in there myself! (The only one down point was the particular room that's available doesn't have the best view. However, they are expecting another vacancy to arise by Monday.) They advised me to take the weekend to think about it, which I will.
OH and I have talked it through and we have decided to persevere with caring for Mum at home a bit longer...our goal is to make it through Christmas. I know you'll all tell me I'm mad but I almost feel like I need to "be tested" a bit more before throwing in the towel. I know this isn't a competition but I do feel part of a "grumpy old carers' club" on here and I'm not quite ready to relinquish my membership By Monday of course we might be regretting our decision
I'm just back from the CH in question - it is THE most wonderful place - all CHs should be like this one (and I've seen quite a few now!). I would unhesitatingly move in there myself! (The only one down point was the particular room that's available doesn't have the best view. However, they are expecting another vacancy to arise by Monday.) They advised me to take the weekend to think about it, which I will.
OH and I have talked it through and we have decided to persevere with caring for Mum at home a bit longer...our goal is to make it through Christmas. I know you'll all tell me I'm mad but I almost feel like I need to "be tested" a bit more before throwing in the towel. I know this isn't a competition but I do feel part of a "grumpy old carers' club" on here and I'm not quite ready to relinquish my membership By Monday of course we might be regretting our decision