1. Monkton

    Monkton Registered User

    Sep 2, 2017
    33
    Just a brief note for those who remember Clunchman. My dear, sweet wife passed into the presence of the Lord Monday afternoon. For her pain, confusion and fear are over. For me, I feel my life has been torn apart. Married 47yr, seldom not together, this has devastated me. Tears have never come easy to me, but now I can't stop them. Thank you all for past support.. Dave.
     
  2. Bunpoots

    Bunpoots Registered User

    Apr 1, 2016
    2,917
    Nottinghamshire
    I remember Clunchman. So sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how it feels.
     
  3. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,442
    Female
    Dundee
    Sending my condolences and wishes no you strength.
     
  4. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,384
    Kent
    Please accept my condolences . I do remember Clunchman .

    Talking Point will still be here for you if you feel it will help.
     
  5. jaymor

    jaymor Volunteer Moderator

    Jul 14, 2006
    12,457
    Female
    England
    My condolences on your sad loss. I do remember your wife.
     
  6. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,509
    Ireland
    I'm so very sorry. My condolences on your loss.
     
  7. northumbrian_k

    northumbrian_k Registered User

    Mar 2, 2017
    757
    Male
    Newcastle
    I remember and have missed Clunchman. So sorry to hear about your loss @Monkton
     
  8. jugglingmum

    jugglingmum Registered User

    Jan 5, 2014
    5,069
    Female
    Chester
    I remember your postings as Clunchman, sorry to hear of your loss
     
  9. Monkton

    Monkton Registered User

    Sep 2, 2017
    33
    Thank you all and just to mention, on this occasion I am received a great deal of support and help from the family.
     
  10. Risa

    Risa Registered User

    Apr 13, 2015
    483
    Essex
    Sorry to hear your sad news Clunchman, thinking of you {{{hugs}}}
     
  11. nellbelles

    nellbelles Volunteer Host

    Nov 6, 2008
    8,374
    leicester
    My sincere condolences wishing you strength at this time
     
  12. PalSal

    PalSal Registered User

    Sorry to read of your saddness and loss. I hope you have family to support you at this time.
     
  13. Lilac Blossom

    Lilac Blossom Registered User

    Oct 6, 2014
    517
    Scotland
    I do remember Clunchman. Sorry to hear of your loss Dave, but thankful to know that family are being supportive at this sad time.

    May you take comfort in knowing that your dear wife is in a better place - free from pain and suffering.
     
  14. Cat27

    Cat27 Volunteer Moderator

    Feb 27, 2015
    10,169
    Merseyside
    I remember too. My thoughts are with you.
     
  15. Hard Work

    Hard Work Registered User

    Sep 20, 2017
    55
    West yorkshire
    So sorry for you loss. Remember those we love never go far away from us.
    She is now at peace keep strong I'm sure that is what she would want you to do.
     
  16. Soobee

    Soobee Registered User

    Aug 22, 2009
    2,734
    South
    My condolences to you.
     
  17. stanleypj

    stanleypj Registered User

    Dec 8, 2011
    10,650
    North West
    Sending my condolences and wishing you strength.
     
  18. Monkton

    Monkton Registered User

    Sep 2, 2017
    33
    Thank you all.
    I know this should have been expected, but my poor Chrissie had done so well of late. I am not given to crying, yet tears keep coming for no obvious reason other than I miss her so very much. She was my life. All I did and wanted to do was for her. I love her dearly yet feel I have failed. I could not keep her alive, yet I can see nothing else I could do. That does not help. Nothing else in life matters to me, but I will just have to try and go on, moment by moment, I can't manage day by day. Family are now with her to view and watch the coffin sealed. I may have been an undertaker, but for my lovely Chrissie I could not do that. She is no longer there, she is at peace, I believe with the Lord. No more to suffer each day and have confusion and fear. But as well as failure to her as a carer, I am selfish and want her here so very much.
     
  19. margherita

    margherita Registered User

    May 30, 2017
    2,416
    Female
    Italy, Milan and Acqui Terme
    How could you have kept her alive?
    You did more.
    You made her feel loved in a deep and unconditioned way. You gave her the gift of your love as well as , I am sure, she gave you her love till her last breath, because such a rare and precious feeling overcomes illness and death.
     

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