Not sure what to do. My mum has lived with me since the start of the pandemic - nearly 3 years. Even though I get her up each day, she sleeps most of the time, and won’t/can’t interact. I spend a lot of my time getting her to drink. No matter how often I ask her to drink, hand her her cup of tea, re-heat her drinks, she still manages to avoid drinking it all.
She only drinks water at night to take her tablets and won’t touch it at other times. She drinks tea and hot chocolate. Until the last couple of months I could virtually guarantee she would drink hot chocolate with few prompts. But this is now getting more difficult.
I’ve tried jelly drops - they are expensive and I still have to give them to her. She won’t drink fruit juice.
We have carers coming in for half an hour a day and she doesn’t interact with them - waves them away telling them to leave her alone. I have time out probably once a month - sitters are scarce as the Care Agency has recruitment problems and ill health in the team of carers.
When she’s been in a Care Home for respite, she hardly eats or drinks at all as they don’t/can’t spend the time necessary reminding her every 5 minutes to drink up. So pouting her into a Care Home probably isn’t the answer, unless I want her to get ill.
Help! Ideas, please. I’m at my wits end. I feel I’ve tried everything. Don’t know what else to try.
She only drinks water at night to take her tablets and won’t touch it at other times. She drinks tea and hot chocolate. Until the last couple of months I could virtually guarantee she would drink hot chocolate with few prompts. But this is now getting more difficult.
I’ve tried jelly drops - they are expensive and I still have to give them to her. She won’t drink fruit juice.
We have carers coming in for half an hour a day and she doesn’t interact with them - waves them away telling them to leave her alone. I have time out probably once a month - sitters are scarce as the Care Agency has recruitment problems and ill health in the team of carers.
When she’s been in a Care Home for respite, she hardly eats or drinks at all as they don’t/can’t spend the time necessary reminding her every 5 minutes to drink up. So pouting her into a Care Home probably isn’t the answer, unless I want her to get ill.
Help! Ideas, please. I’m at my wits end. I feel I’ve tried everything. Don’t know what else to try.