Personal Independance Payment (PIP) has replaced Disability Living Allowance (DLA) for new claimants. This benefit is for people under 65.
Attendance Allowance (AA) is for people over 65 years old. These benefits are not influenced by any income you may have. They are based upon how your problems affect your daily life.
I would recommend you get help to fill in the form from Citizens Advice Bureau, Welfare Rights or Age Concern or a similar agency as they understand how to fill in the form correctly to give the best chance of receiving the benefit. They can also advise on further benefits (Severe Disability Premium, Carers Allowance, extra Housing Benefit, Council Tax Benefit etc.) which may be available should you receive either PIP or AA. You will need to arrange an appointment as soon as you can as they have lots of people wanting their help and you will probably have to wait a few weeks for the appointment.
The forms can be ordered by telephone from Benefit Enquiry Line and if awarded will be backdated to the day you rang to order the form. The forms are stamped with a date you have to return the form by. It usually has to be returned to them within 6 weeks after you ordered it.
Whilst waiting for an appointment to fill in the form, keep a record of all the things you have difficulty with as they arise, and take this list to your appointment as this will help when filling in the form. If you do not keep a list you may forget to mention some of the problems you experience. Also take along any medical reports from your GP or hospital that you may have and if the adviser thinks they are favourable to your case they will include a copy with your claim form.
You will have to wait for approximately 3 months before you know if you will receive it but the money will be backdated if your claim is successful. If you are refused the benefit you are entitled to ask them to reconsider the decision or to appeal the decision. Again, you will be able to get help to do this by the agency that helped you complete your form and this will take the stress off you or your family member.