Hi
My Dad has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and amongst sorting out all the paperwork involved in taking over running his life I am wondering about applying for attendance allowance.
He lives on his own and gets help from his partner most days, who is taking on more and more care for him. We are at the point of wanting to get help in for him on a daily basis and will have to pay for it privately. The main worry is that he isn't managing to take his medication (for various problems) regularly. He is forgetting to eat and throws food away, and the new drug Donepezil needs to be taken on a full stomach. He isn't showering or changing his clothes. Without his partners help he wouldn't be able to manage and she isn't there all the time and I am an hours drive away.
I don't want to waste anyone's time by asking for an assessment if he is no where near qualifying for help. How bad does he have to be? I m not even sure if he would be entitled to it as he has a private pension.
Any advice or suggestions, I am all ears. Thanking you in advance for anyone who is prepared to share their own experiences. I hope to be able to offer some advice to someone in the future but it's all a bit new at the moment.
Many thanks.
My Dad has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's and amongst sorting out all the paperwork involved in taking over running his life I am wondering about applying for attendance allowance.
He lives on his own and gets help from his partner most days, who is taking on more and more care for him. We are at the point of wanting to get help in for him on a daily basis and will have to pay for it privately. The main worry is that he isn't managing to take his medication (for various problems) regularly. He is forgetting to eat and throws food away, and the new drug Donepezil needs to be taken on a full stomach. He isn't showering or changing his clothes. Without his partners help he wouldn't be able to manage and she isn't there all the time and I am an hours drive away.
I don't want to waste anyone's time by asking for an assessment if he is no where near qualifying for help. How bad does he have to be? I m not even sure if he would be entitled to it as he has a private pension.
Any advice or suggestions, I am all ears. Thanking you in advance for anyone who is prepared to share their own experiences. I hope to be able to offer some advice to someone in the future but it's all a bit new at the moment.
Many thanks.