Only a small improvement but I'm very proud of my husband.
For the last 6-7 months I have had to dress my husband when in the Care Home and Hospital. Since he has been home I have continued with this. A couple of evenings ago we had a long chat and he said that I did all these things because I enjoy them (Yeah - right on). I said, No, I did them because he couldn't do them for himself and I was happy to do them but if he wanted to try, then I wouldn't stop him but I would be there if he needed help. I assumed this conversation would be forgotten very quickly.
The next morning when he got up he reached for his t--shirt and put it on. Then he looked confused as if not really sure what to do next. I helped him with his trousers, socks and slippers.
Yesterday morning he put his socks on, then his t-shirt, then his trousers and slippers. Then he sat in front of the mirror and reached for his comb and combed his hair. I really couldn't believe it. It's the first time he has combed his hair in about nine months.
Before I get too excited - this doesn't continue during the day. I still have to change his trousers following 'accidents' or if we change to go out but it is a small improvement.
This is one VERY proud wife.
For the last 6-7 months I have had to dress my husband when in the Care Home and Hospital. Since he has been home I have continued with this. A couple of evenings ago we had a long chat and he said that I did all these things because I enjoy them (Yeah - right on). I said, No, I did them because he couldn't do them for himself and I was happy to do them but if he wanted to try, then I wouldn't stop him but I would be there if he needed help. I assumed this conversation would be forgotten very quickly.
The next morning when he got up he reached for his t--shirt and put it on. Then he looked confused as if not really sure what to do next. I helped him with his trousers, socks and slippers.
Yesterday morning he put his socks on, then his t-shirt, then his trousers and slippers. Then he sat in front of the mirror and reached for his comb and combed his hair. I really couldn't believe it. It's the first time he has combed his hair in about nine months.
Before I get too excited - this doesn't continue during the day. I still have to change his trousers following 'accidents' or if we change to go out but it is a small improvement.
This is one VERY proud wife.