Thank you. This is what I intend to say at his Best Interests Meeting. With a portfolio of Dvds, pictures and newspaper articles. OH is frustrated and frustrating, awkward and in need of constant help and support and I'd love to throw in the towel, but we haven't even had the chance to get support mechanisms firmed up We weren't offered any until after his first hospital stay, and he was readmitted just over 4vweeks later. Everything stops while he's in hospital so I can't get things in place until he is home. Can't even get his LPAs signed, and solicitor is satisfied he still has legal capacity. Bank also satisfied he has financial capacity.Oh @Alisongs what an amazing and dedicated champion of your husband you are. He has achieved so much. Do make this available to all the decision makers in the next meeting on his future. It’s an honest and passionate statement of who he was and still is; sometimes, maybe always, people need to be reminded of this. I follow your posts with admiration of the true warrior you are.
I agree my husband no longer has medical capacity. His dementia makes him unable to calculate or self administer injections, medication or an appropriate diet for his diabetes and Parkinsons. If OH only had dementia he would still be at home and would never have had any hospital admissions yet.
But the DOLS subjects both of us to the hospitals interpretation of Best Interests.
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