it hurt thats all when i would do anything for my husband not to have dementia and for him to tell me that i use it just got to me. its taken me all day to deal with him. even growing up, he took twice as long to deal with than the other 3.Sorry you’ve had a disappointing day @jennifer1967
Your son is being unfair. Probably criticising you as a form of defence for letting you down.
Unless some people live as carers they haven’t a clue.
who else is going to be responsible than me. i live with him and im his wife.
sorry i dont usually moan or post so much, i dont normally ask for help but last 2 weeks, ive struggled.