My husband, 73, has Alzheimer’s stage 3-4. Our daughter, 36 years old, got engaged over the holidays. We are very excited for her. She lives 500 miles away from us. She, of course, wants her dad at her wedding. He dad refuses to travel so she is going to have her wedding where we live. She is trying to do everything she can to make her dad comfortable and hopefully enjoy her wedding. She asked me to help with the wedding since she doesn’t live here. Her main concern is her dad. I’ll probably be asking for a lot of advice from you all in the coming months.
What size wedding would you recommend? She’s worried her dad will be overwhelmed if it’s too big. I come from a large family. If she invites just my siblings and her cousins that’s about 50 people. So the choice is have a medium size wedding with around 100 people and invite family or a small wedding of about 20 people, but not have family attend. She also thought about having a private wedding ceremony with 10 people, no family and a larger reception that includes family. Her dad has a tendency to get up and leave if he feels uncomfortable and she’s worried he will leave in the middle of the wedding ceremony.
What size wedding would you recommend? She’s worried her dad will be overwhelmed if it’s too big. I come from a large family. If she invites just my siblings and her cousins that’s about 50 people. So the choice is have a medium size wedding with around 100 people and invite family or a small wedding of about 20 people, but not have family attend. She also thought about having a private wedding ceremony with 10 people, no family and a larger reception that includes family. Her dad has a tendency to get up and leave if he feels uncomfortable and she’s worried he will leave in the middle of the wedding ceremony.