I'm a remote carer. Social services say my father doesn't need enough help for them to get involved (they came round and did an emergency assessment at a medical professionals request when I wasn't there). He gets full attendance allowance but can't fund more than say four hours of good quality private care. He is low vision and today I find he has been administering eye drops using nail fungus brushes and widening the holes of the droppers with a drill bit. He says a lady came in and told him to do it this way. He can no longer work his phone, can't work a washing machine and can't manage kitchen hygiene. He can't walk further than the end of the road and is unstable on his feet. Social services are coming back round. Any tips for what I can say to get him help please? I'm hoping for visits twice a day to manage medication, social interaction, keep kitchen hygienic, help put washing on and check he hasn't fallen. It doesn't feel like a lot to be asking for does it?