I'd try repotting it as several plants cutting baby shoots off at their base with a sharp knife.Any tips if this can be salvaged would be warmly welcomed .....
I'm afraid to say the cactus has now gone to cactus heaven but thanks anyway @nitram. There comes a point when hanging on to anything that is from the past of trying to also cling on comes to rest. I am glad because I don't like cacti and my mum didn't to be honest, however she seemed to always take such delight in this plant even though it was dormant for years on end -long before her dementia kicked in.I'd try repotting it as several plants cutting baby shoots off at their base with a sharp knife.
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Yes its not an easy time of the year especially this time two years ago my sister was dying from a very aggressive cancer. It seems that this time of year will be forever marked with more sorrow than Christmas cheer, certainly for now. I was having a conversation at work about my mums current status and said I was beginning to ponder if she too will follow the same fate given her decline of late. I think if she had the choice she would likely choose New Years day, the same day as her father who she loved dearly of course her mum too, but she was by all accounts a dads girl.Hello @Palerider This time of year can be so hard for carers, there seems to be a feeling that we should all be happy and bright just because it is Christmas but it's not as easy as that.
This disease is just so awful and only those affected truly understand. Take care of yourself.
I'm sorry to hear of your mum's passing, and I wish you and your mum peace. I just write what's in my head and try to put it in some sensible order when I do, though there have been days when what I have written does not reflect completely what I am trying to unravel -if that makes any sense at all? I am glad I was not alone @boothaly in trying to fathom this experience. My and mums journey unfortunately continues, for how long is anyone's guess.Hello @Palerider I have been a 'watcher' on your thread for quite sometime. Our mum's have been on the same journey with very similar timelines. (Social Services, clearing and sale of her house, into care during early Covid etc..) I've really appreciated your diary, it's helped me think about my feelings for what's happened along the way. My mum has just come to the end of her journey; she passed on 17th November, the funeral was on the 7th December. While arranging the funeral I came across a couple of things which I found odd, but it does make you think. Firstly, mums dad was a prisoner of war and I came across his discharge papers and the date he was coming home to see her for the first time... 17th November 1945! Daddies girl?, yes of course. And second, mum had left me instructions for her funeral, i.e. music to be played etc (created years ago while she could still write) and written at the bottom of the page was - Tijuana Christmas! - her favourite Christmas album. How would she have known the time of year? Just coincidence? Who knows. Wishing you much strength for the rest of your journey. Be kind to yourself. Kind regards, Aly. x