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I was met by hustle and bustle when I arrived today. The owner [L] was putting up clean curtains and so chairs were pulled out towards the centre of the room just as they would be at home, and L was up the ladder.
Another carer, V was sorting videos and DVDs
Dhiren greeted me with his usual surprise, his lovely smile and open arms.
But he was very confused.
He thought I was in the way. The `workmen` were busy.
He thought I was talking to too many people. I wanted attention.
He thought I was talking too loud. `Why don`t you put it in the papers`.
He asked for paper and pen.
S `What for?`
D `To write things down.`
So I got out some paper and a pen.
S `What shall I write?`
D `Write what you can do and what I can do.`
S `What can you do?`
D `I don`t know.`
There was tennis on the television. One of his favourite players, Andy Ruddick, was playing.
He didn`t know him and had no interest in the match.
And then he really surprised me by asking me to take him to his room. I wasn`t aware he knew he had a room.
Paul takes him to his room but I don`t like the feeling of isolation so managed to distract him.
After an hour I felt I had outstayed my welcome.
Perhaps all the hustle and bustle had tired or unsettled him. I felt he needed a rest, so I left.
I was met by hustle and bustle when I arrived today. The owner [L] was putting up clean curtains and so chairs were pulled out towards the centre of the room just as they would be at home, and L was up the ladder.
Another carer, V was sorting videos and DVDs
Dhiren greeted me with his usual surprise, his lovely smile and open arms.
But he was very confused.
He thought I was in the way. The `workmen` were busy.
He thought I was talking to too many people. I wanted attention.
He thought I was talking too loud. `Why don`t you put it in the papers`.
He asked for paper and pen.
S `What for?`
D `To write things down.`
So I got out some paper and a pen.
S `What shall I write?`
D `Write what you can do and what I can do.`
S `What can you do?`
D `I don`t know.`
There was tennis on the television. One of his favourite players, Andy Ruddick, was playing.
He didn`t know him and had no interest in the match.
And then he really surprised me by asking me to take him to his room. I wasn`t aware he knew he had a room.
Paul takes him to his room but I don`t like the feeling of isolation so managed to distract him.
After an hour I felt I had outstayed my welcome.
Perhaps all the hustle and bustle had tired or unsettled him. I felt he needed a rest, so I left.