That sounds lovely
@Vitesse x
I'm glad you had a good day too x Shame they aren't the norm but we have to make most of them while we can.
This morning mum is full of confusion. Said she's feeling a bit sick and was worried because she thought she threw two of her tablets away yesterday, she didnt because I give her them and watch her take them, then she thought it was sunday with my sister when she threw them away but sister hasnt been for three weeks. She asked why she would think it and I said I think she had been dreaming and mixed it up with a real memory.
After five rounds of that we moved onto asking about a couple she's not been friends with for 29 year, she had mixed me and hubby up with them and thought that yesterday she had been with them rather than us. So we had half a dozen rounds of that interspersed with talking about if she had wrote her christmas cards because she thought the friend (aka me) had been writing them yesterday and she didn't know if had done her own.
Then she said oh I'm getting so confused, I'm getting worse aren't. I'd already told her a couple of times not to worry about it and things like it doesn't matter so that time I went for a laugh and said. 'It bi reight' which did make her laugh and we had a couple of minutes break from confusion but then she was talking about how I was lovely looking after her but I couldn't keep staying with her which then went back into a confusion conversation of who I was, was I married, who else did she have and if I went home who else would look after her.
Her poor brain must be shattered I know mine is.
She's just gone to get in shower but popped back in on way to ask about clothes to wear and if needs to wash her hair, which she always does, but this time she thought I was an old friend of hers from around 50 year ago who was the ex wife of my uncle. So when realised I wasnt, she wanted to know who I was and after I told her I'm her daughter Andrea she asked if she had another so I told her bout my sister and she said Am I older than you then? Yes cos you're my mum.
Now either I look 72,
which is possible I feel 92 a lot of the time, or mum thought she was younger which as she was going back 30 and 50 years this morning I think she must have thought she was younger. And if I think about it she was going back to when those people were in their 30s and 20s so maybe my haircut has made me look younger lol.
I'm going to try keep that thought to keep me going as I fear today could be a very long day if we continue like this.