Dave I hope you are feeling better this morning
Please prepare yourself now for when you feel like this again. Can you arrange for your wife to go to daycare a couple of times a week? Sell it to her that she could 'help out' with teas etc. It's your wife's income/savings that will be assessed not yours.
I looked after P for 7 years at home and he only started Daycare 5 months before he went to a CH-I really wish I had insisted that he went earlier. Yes I did insist as P didn't want to go-generally he liked it once he was inside. Sometimes you have to ignore the person you care for when they say 'I don't want' and go for what you NEED
Take care
Lyn T
Please prepare yourself now for when you feel like this again. Can you arrange for your wife to go to daycare a couple of times a week? Sell it to her that she could 'help out' with teas etc. It's your wife's income/savings that will be assessed not yours.
I looked after P for 7 years at home and he only started Daycare 5 months before he went to a CH-I really wish I had insisted that he went earlier. Yes I did insist as P didn't want to go-generally he liked it once he was inside. Sometimes you have to ignore the person you care for when they say 'I don't want' and go for what you NEED
Take care
Lyn T