pat
your story made me cry ,my husband has vas/dem 4, 9 years now he is only 69 i have that guilt, my husband can still walk but thats all he dose all day long wont sit down not even for a meal he cant talk has not done so 4, 3 years he has no life every think his done 4 him its so sad 2 see our husband go this way he was a happy man b4 this when my husband was at home i got 2 a stage where i started 2 hate him ,he is a care home has been 4 ,2 years i know he is in the best place ,he dont konw me much now just wants 2 walk ,this letter is no help 2 u ,but needed 2 say i know where u are comeing from not nice seeing them go the way thay are all the best ann