mum went into care, on an emergancy basis...today i hear, she dosnt meet the criteria for residential care ! and will be returning home monday !.....so back to square 1...she furniture walks, is incontinant ( at times doubly ) weighs less than 6 stone, is manipulative with me ( emotionally )i feel used and abused, ive cared full time for her for 6 years, while other family have done nothing to help..my lifes been on hold , and remains so...i live with her, in her home, and have done for 25 years, do i really have no rights? i am 51..she is coming up 91, life is a rollarcoaster once more, i was just begining to feel my heart lighten and feelings of guilt etc subside, ha ! more fool me ay !!....my mental health has suffered and im yet again to be a prisoner here, with her needs and rights put before even my basic rights.....i needed to rant , sorry