CAn We Move MIL
Hello everyone,
would just like to thank everyone for the information and links.
I was just wondering can we move my MIL to a home nearer to ourselves? Its a messy affair as we now beleive there is NO paper work and the SS and everyone are ignoring us.
We live about 60 miles from where MIL home is which is a strain on us finacially and time wise.
We have been in touch with an advocate who claims they may be able to get the charges on the house taken off,he said depravation of liberty and breaking all the rules was a good argument, but having read what i have read I think this is unlikey. We had a meeting with the advocate who told us that MIL and FIL should have had advocate at the original assessments but the SS took MIL & FIL to homes and told the homes they had no relatives... But..... What can I say....
I think if the charges are going to stay on there house I would at least like to have MIL closer so we can see her every day. She is in a secure home so I am assuming we will need to find one in our area likewise?
Dad in law is 86 and in the late stages of Vascular Dementia so We dont think moving him would be a good idea.
To be honest I dont know how MIL would cope with a move either, but at least she would see us more than once a week...
regards
Susie
Hello everyone,
would just like to thank everyone for the information and links.
I was just wondering can we move my MIL to a home nearer to ourselves? Its a messy affair as we now beleive there is NO paper work and the SS and everyone are ignoring us.
We live about 60 miles from where MIL home is which is a strain on us finacially and time wise.
We have been in touch with an advocate who claims they may be able to get the charges on the house taken off,he said depravation of liberty and breaking all the rules was a good argument, but having read what i have read I think this is unlikey. We had a meeting with the advocate who told us that MIL and FIL should have had advocate at the original assessments but the SS took MIL & FIL to homes and told the homes they had no relatives... But..... What can I say....
I think if the charges are going to stay on there house I would at least like to have MIL closer so we can see her every day. She is in a secure home so I am assuming we will need to find one in our area likewise?
Dad in law is 86 and in the late stages of Vascular Dementia so We dont think moving him would be a good idea.
To be honest I dont know how MIL would cope with a move either, but at least she would see us more than once a week...
regards
Susie