Yes
@hillyjay I know how you feel.
……I thought what a good idea. Then doubts crept in. ….. So I suggested we start by him taking a day off and coming to ours early'ish so I could have a whole day out and to into town, visit an exhibition, or the like,
I had a really good day. It's been a long time since I was in town with so many people milling about! Yes, I enjoyed my day, but it was strange after all these years to have no-one there to share it with, to talk about what I saw, where and what to eat, etc.. Although we have separate interests, we also have some in common and nearly always shared things.
Of course, son had no troubles, and it was probably good for him to spend that much time caring for his mum.
Now, I'm a little more confident in planning the next outing!
So
@hillyjay wrestle away, and have a break (if not a KitKat!)