Captain Scarlett
Registered User
Hello All,
I am the sole and full-time carer for my husband, who has Alzheimer's. We are in our 10th year of living with this illness. We are both English but live in a rural and isolated part of France and until 3 months ago I had been caring for my husband entirely alone. Thankfully, last November my husband was offered 1 day a week at a day centre an hour's drive away. It has been a literal life-saver for me, however I remain utterly exhausted, stressed, lonely and feeling as though my life is slipping through my fingers and there's nothing I can do to stop it. I know this is a forum for those in the UK but I feel I really do need some adult contact in my native language to get me through the most trying days. I hope that is ok with you all. Also, after 10 years experience, it might be that I have some words of advice or comfort to offer those who are new to living with Alzheimer's. Please do ask!
I am the sole and full-time carer for my husband, who has Alzheimer's. We are in our 10th year of living with this illness. We are both English but live in a rural and isolated part of France and until 3 months ago I had been caring for my husband entirely alone. Thankfully, last November my husband was offered 1 day a week at a day centre an hour's drive away. It has been a literal life-saver for me, however I remain utterly exhausted, stressed, lonely and feeling as though my life is slipping through my fingers and there's nothing I can do to stop it. I know this is a forum for those in the UK but I feel I really do need some adult contact in my native language to get me through the most trying days. I hope that is ok with you all. Also, after 10 years experience, it might be that I have some words of advice or comfort to offer those who are new to living with Alzheimer's. Please do ask!