Dad and I collected Mum's ashes about a month ago. Dad said that he wanted them to be put in the local cemetery as Mum used to love walking there for the birds, trees and solitude. Funeral directors said that Dad would need to buy a proper urn or casket to bury Mum's ashes and that it would cost £90. Straight away Dad was moaning about the price. When they informed Dad that a tiny plot for Mum's ashes would be £600, plus other costs, he has done his usual trick and just shut down the conversation. My Dad, love him, is penny pinching and stubborn and I've had various battles with him over the last few years about getting carers etc. I would love Mum to be in a place where we could all visit, instead of being in the container in a corner of the bedroom. I know that it will probably be the case that it will be left to me to sort it when Dad has gone, which will then be like both of them going at the same time. I would prefer Mum to have a proper place and not be scattered, but know it's up to Dad to decide - I just wish he would. It's hard to broach subjects with Dad because he shuts down. I've had really good advice from people on this community. Has anyone else been in this situation? I would welcome any suggestions. Thank you.