I was wondering what to say to my poor mum who had vascular dementia...(possibly Lewy bodies) mum keeps asking me for her mum and dad and her husband , my dad who died and had vascular dementia too ...this has been happening for a few nights now and I've told her they have passed away and it's like grieving every time over and over ...am I doing the right thing by telling her this ? Also mum is registered blind and SW and CPN are coming tomorrow to see about respite ...am I doing the right thing regarding respite ? The guilt is heavy on my mind . Any advice would be greatly received thanks .