I had a visit last week. It seemed a check box session.
The careworker wanted to know how many time he e.g choked on food
How many times he did this or that. She seemed calmly frustrated I could not give definitive answers to anything. Not knowing me or him did not help.
There are so many ifs, when and buts.
Yesterday was a quiet day, a routine and a morning doze. Then visitors, his face lit up at seeing a loved grandson, he put in the appropriate comments. Then they left, he was tired and was restless walking around with a stick looking for the very stick. Trying to get the case worker to understand every action has a chain reaction, for good or bad is something quite hard to do on a check box visit. If the was a one for Carers attitude it was probably obstructive. I just could not give definitive answers.
The bed time carer came early, he was exhausted so an early night for us both.