My mum has moved today to her permanent care home. She was in hospital then intermediate care for a few weeks. She was fine in the first home but I went in to put her things in her room and she was so agitated. I can't tell you how upset I am with this. I was fine until today. I feel I've let her down. I have to tell her white lies when leaving her and hate that. I feel so sad. She does have bad dementia but I feel she's not half as bad as some of the other residents. I know it will take time for us all to settle down but I feel I've let her down. I would have her home if I could. Anyone else have this type of experience.