Well hi there ladies. I’ve been reading your posts @margherita , do hope your teeth are less painful and that the work will go well, lovely pics by the way, and @Beads , am glad that you’re enjoying the grandchildren and that you got the OH to shower - I managed to get my OH showered today too - there never were such times!
Have to say though I am quite down recently, worried about my son who has sunk into despondent lethargy since he gave up his flat in London and moved back here, which has turned out to be the worst thing he could have done. It was only meant to be temporary but somehow because of the way things have deteriorated here he seems to have lost all confidence about his own life, lack of financial stability etc. I can put up with my husband’s me me me attitude - it’s always been like that really - but he’s completely oblivious to anyone else’s troubles, which I know is due to the AD but as he never really put himself out for his kids I feel that although I will look after him as long as I can, and realise that I don’t have much of a life like all of us on here, I just want my son to be happy and hang the rest. He stays in his room much of the time and seems to have lost all the positivity he had when he finished his degree as a mature student. I just want him to be able to move out of here and get on with his own life, and feel a bit guilty that he came back in a way to help here, - not realising how much things would go downhill ..... oh well, I just pray that things will get better for him, you or a miracle happens! My daughter is also constantly stressed out with her job so I don’t really have anyone to dump on now! Am so lucky tho to still have my little job once a week where i can have normal conversations.
Oh dear ladies I am really going on one today aren’t I. The snow is melting away here which is good - it may look pretty but it’s been a real nuisance getting anywhere.
Sorry to rant on, but at least I know on here you understand because you are all going through this horrible stuff in different ways without much of a happy relationship to look back on. My love to you all xx
Have to say though I am quite down recently, worried about my son who has sunk into despondent lethargy since he gave up his flat in London and moved back here, which has turned out to be the worst thing he could have done. It was only meant to be temporary but somehow because of the way things have deteriorated here he seems to have lost all confidence about his own life, lack of financial stability etc. I can put up with my husband’s me me me attitude - it’s always been like that really - but he’s completely oblivious to anyone else’s troubles, which I know is due to the AD but as he never really put himself out for his kids I feel that although I will look after him as long as I can, and realise that I don’t have much of a life like all of us on here, I just want my son to be happy and hang the rest. He stays in his room much of the time and seems to have lost all the positivity he had when he finished his degree as a mature student. I just want him to be able to move out of here and get on with his own life, and feel a bit guilty that he came back in a way to help here, - not realising how much things would go downhill ..... oh well, I just pray that things will get better for him, you or a miracle happens! My daughter is also constantly stressed out with her job so I don’t really have anyone to dump on now! Am so lucky tho to still have my little job once a week where i can have normal conversations.
Oh dear ladies I am really going on one today aren’t I. The snow is melting away here which is good - it may look pretty but it’s been a real nuisance getting anywhere.
Sorry to rant on, but at least I know on here you understand because you are all going through this horrible stuff in different ways without much of a happy relationship to look back on. My love to you all xx