You are right @Silversally living with the PWD does seem to suck the life and joy out of the day. Like you, my OH sleeps a lot now, and this has made life a little easier. The down side is he can do nothing, he just sits and stares at the wall, or nods off in his bedroom, waiting for meals etc. He has just asked me 3 times when dinner is - it's only 3.30!! This morning he got up at 10 and asked me where his meal was - like he's in a hotel and expecting room service!! Not at all irritating!! The only positive to this is that I can see now that there will be an end to this - there is an incremental deterioration daily. I know it sounds harsh, but really this is an existence, not a life for him, or me.