My husband has prostate cancer and now has mixed vascular dementia ‘ I cannot understand how this has happened so quickly he worked off shore all his life ‘ now I look at him he is like a stranger lost so much weight and is completely confused not knowing who I am lots of the time ‘ by evening he asks me to get him a taxi to go home he doesn’t no he live here anymore ‘ he sees things that are not there and just sits nearly all day it’s his eyes closed ‘ I am heart broken and do not no what to do anymore