Hi @Ravenbrand and welcome to the Forum. Our community of members with experience of dementia is a great place to share with people who truly understand, to find helpful ideas and to let off steam.
that did make me chuckle. I did hide the scissors but being a resourceful man the next night he found a multi-tool penknife and used that. I thought scissors might be a "safer" option!! atm he is waking up hourly thru the night. The Community Nurse came round to assess things and his medication is being tweaked so, even if it takes some time to stabilise, I am now getting some help.Hide the scissors and buy him some boxing gloves, try using a pair of scissors with those on, isn't easy. Please appreciate I say this lightheartedly let's see what others suggest. K
Welcome to this forum @JusS26Hi, I am brand new to the forum and brand new to Alzheimers, sadly, as my mum, at the age of 80, has just been diagnosed this week.
I really have no idea what lies ahead of us, or how, when, or if, her condition will deteriorate, and if so, how quickly. She has just received her first medication, so hopefully that will have a positive impact.
The most frustrating aspect is the fact that for a woman of her age, mum is an incredibly fit and healthy lady, excluding her poor recall.
We are embarking on a journey that I can only imagine is not going to be in any way fun, for any of us, sadly. It feels like the beginning of a very sad ending.
Good luck, God bless u.Hello @thesoundone and welcome to the forum. I am sorry to hear about your mum, it can be so difficult to care for someone with Alzheimer's or any form of dementia.
If this is a very sudden downturn I would suggest that you get your mum checked for a UTI (urinary tract infection) as they can cause havoc in a person with dementia and lead to the sort of downturn that you are describing.
Regarding the move to a smaller house, please think very carefully about that, because of the memory loss that you have described there is a possibility that your mum would not be able to cope with a move to a new house/environment, would not be able to find herself around a new house which would only put more strain on your dad.
a nice place to be Martin! , particularly at this time of year , late spring, and the summer to enjoy ☀️PS. I also live by the sea.Martin
Nice place but quiet lonely, most properties are only occupied by visitors who stay for two weeks at the most and usually come with friends or family.a nice place to be Martin! , particularly at this time of year , late spring, and the summer to enjoy ☀️