Thanks so much for the friendship here. Life will be taking one of its biggest changes and to have constancy and a place to reflect is going to be so helpful I think 🥰🥰🥰
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@Chizz I keep meaning to thank you …when mum moved into her home you told me to design our new life as I wished……everyone else told me what to do, but your post gave me the freedom to do exactly that. And I did. Thank you. I shall endeavour to do that now too…..indeed I need to..I definitely don’t want to go back to my pre covid / caring life.
Today we went to the funeral directors. Of course now overwhelmed with all the arrangements- but pushed it all back a week until 10th July to give some more time. Finished clearing mum’s room, and was pleased that one of the other relatives who is becoming a friend was in so we could swap numbers.
Beginning to re-live the trauma of last wednesday…I turned up just as it was kicking off for her 😢😢 I’ve had some debrief following incidents at work and the theory is to let the images play and play across your mind as this is the brain’s method of processing. The mind will keep doing this until it’s reached it’s peace. Much better than shutting the thoughts down. It’s worked for me in the past so will let them run….
And on a brighter note….how could FB know this is what my place is like 🤣🤣🤣