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Oh I've had those conversations on mum's last hospital admission 🤨 Consultant sent a junior medic to inform me of 'what not to expect' although ultimately it was my choice... but not really! Effectively written off as she was a patient with dementia, I accepted that invasive/major interventions were not an option as in my mind mum would present as too high risk on 'the table' but emergency resuscitation and the like..? Basically told a no-goer. Just prior (mid-admission) she had been scheduled for a procedure regarding her gallbladder which we had politely declined, pretty quick turn around in their thinking following that one eh? You decline an option and then as a consequence all others are off the table too! Our decision not to go with the procedure was borne out by mum's recovery once I worked to get her discharged home... Apologies I didn't mean to go on
Certain topics are like a light switch going off in my brain.
So pleased that your mum aced her GP visit @sdmhred and heaped praise on the level of care you giveI’m glad to hear my musings cheer you @Knitandpurl 😀 One thing that i really enjoy about this site is connecting with people of all ages and backgrounds- folk I would never usually come across- but this positive side of the ‘dementia club’ is so enriching.
my work day started with a shock as alarm clock user error 🙈🙈 led to me waking up 23 mins before the laptop was due on 😱😱 Thankfully no early calls received so I was able to ‘come to’ before my first meeting! No work shockers which was a relief, and a good visit this afternoon to a lovely person who is too anxious to leave their house - each week we go for a short walk going further down the road. Also relieved that mum still ok on her own for a couple of hours. As the dementia has progressed she seems just to sit and watch the TV in my absence - my CCTV provides great peace of mind 😀😀
She aced the GP appt - I was so proud 🥰🥰 Came over as a lovely sweet old lady (which she is) but duly forgot she had been away and 3 times told the doctor how well she was being looked 😀😀 All observations normal and blood taken. We’ve been left with a respect form - and for us to discuss what treatment or not she would want in the event of a heart attack or stroke!
As soon as 5pm hits, the alarm goes again and we pile into the car with a picnic tea to sit at a local beauty spot 😀😀
After all that - im done - so it’s a TV night!
Oh I've had those conversations on mum's last hospital admission 🤨 Consultant sent a junior medic to inform me of 'what not to expect' although ultimately it was my choice... but not really! Effectively written off as she was a patient with dementia, I accepted that invasive/major interventions were not an option as in my mind mum would present as too high risk on 'the table' but emergency resuscitation and the like..? Basically told a no-goer. Just prior (mid-admission) she had been scheduled for a procedure regarding her gallbladder which we had politely declined, pretty quick turn around in their thinking following that one eh? You decline an option and then as a consequence all others are off the table too! Our decision not to go with the procedure was borne out by mum's recovery once I worked to get her discharged home... Apologies I didn't mean to go on