Hi everyone- new to this forum to seek advice and support please? 🙏
Mum (78) diagnosed with Alzheimers in Nov 21- she lives with my Dad (84) in Cardiff. I live 150 miles away so supporting from afar.
Mum is mobile, potters about and can look after herself but is more confused and bewildered each day, can no longer write and finds it very hard to finish most sentences. My Dad has always been looked after my Mum and switching roles for him to look out for her is a challenge!
The hardest part is not having a timeline for when things will deteriorate….they have a great local support but don't want to ask for help. Ive tried to set up visits to support preparing meals etc but they’re just not interested.
Any advice on how to support from afar to know they're safe- will the guilt of not being closer get any less?!
Mum (78) diagnosed with Alzheimers in Nov 21- she lives with my Dad (84) in Cardiff. I live 150 miles away so supporting from afar.
Mum is mobile, potters about and can look after herself but is more confused and bewildered each day, can no longer write and finds it very hard to finish most sentences. My Dad has always been looked after my Mum and switching roles for him to look out for her is a challenge!
The hardest part is not having a timeline for when things will deteriorate….they have a great local support but don't want to ask for help. Ive tried to set up visits to support preparing meals etc but they’re just not interested.
Any advice on how to support from afar to know they're safe- will the guilt of not being closer get any less?!