Hope everything goes well today. How lovely to be scattering the ashes on your mum's birthday. A nice symmetry.
My mum wanted her ashes interred in a grave in Hatfield (I think)where my dad's ashes are. I've searched on line and can't find anything, so need a trip down. It is 3 hours away and just haven't had time. They are currently at the undertakers and your post has made me think I should collect them. (My brother promised at mum's funeral in June he would go to look at he is 2 hours away, no childcare responsibilities and not always working. I have asked him since but unsurprisingly not happened).
When I cleared my mum's house in 2014 I discovered my gran's ashes. She died in 1999. They are in a plastic container behind my sofa. Like
@sdmhred I have no idea where to scatter them. And feel I should do it with my brother. I didn't really have time during the caring years and haven't always been on speaking terms with brother.
I am hoping to make progress by mum's anniversary in June with her ashes.