Feeling so desperate my mum is 93 with mixed dementia lives alone with carers 4 times a day recently stopped sleeping at night and then totally confused the next day but yesterday was the worst yet went to the door shouting for help at 7am ended up with neighbours delivery driver all trying to help them calling me and paramedics being called. The confusion lasted all day my husband had to come home and lost a days money I lost a lot of my sight last year and so cannot drive so not easy to dash round anymore. I think the time has come to put her in a home I can’t go on like this paramedic did referral to social services and care company also but no one called if I could just get her in respite at least. I am an only child so have no other help. I do not have power of attorney another problem and mum owns the house any advice would really be appreciated.