Hi my mum who is 90 was recently diagnosed with early dementia which is hard enough for me to deal with but my older brother still lives with mum, he's 54 and a drug addict, using class A drug in mums house and also steals from her regularly. Mum pays all of his bills and she gets no money off him at all. He works full time. Mum wouldn't do POA accusing me of wanting to take over her finances. The psychiatrist mum saw at the memory clinic made a safeguarding report as it all came out about my brother. Mum is very vulnerable because of her memory so it's been difficult for me, my mental health has taken a huge hit. Today my brother phoned mum and asked her if she had been to the cash machine yet so he's asking her to get money for him. Any advice for this nightmare situation?
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