Thankyou for the welcome. Im.very confused and worried. My mum whos also been independent, ran businesses and been such a kind loving lady has changed over the last 5 years. she does drink every night and this does change her personality. However I've noticed other changes.she won't go out the house unless with my dad, she has stopped driving, her social circle has drooped and when she meets her friend I've watched and she doesn't engage she listens more than chats. She also has lost her empathy for situations and people and is very angry with everything except my dad and my sons her grandchildren we have thought it was drink associated but I've been staying with her and am shocked at the change in her, she shakes every morning like parkinsons, and suffers dreadful anxiety.she doesn't run the house or finances, my dad does absolutely everything for her and she has recently said such horrific things to me her only child that something clicked and I believe she has some form of early onset dementia. Her walk and gait is bad and she has to hold my dad her legs open and unbalanced at time, she lives daily life like a military Sargent with routine. And if anything changes this she cant cope. Her father my grandad got frontal lobe dementia and died young at 73...I don't know what to do.