Hi, I’m 27 years old my dad has ARBD (alcohol related brain damage) and dementia. He was coping but the last few weeks he has plummeted. Tonight I saw him and he was confused where he was didn’t know which house he was in which he has lived in for the past three years. He was talking about missing my mum like it was yesterday (been separated for 17 years) got to the point where he can’t physically function, eating, dressing etc. I have 3 year old twins so it’s hard to see him as much as I can when he lives 10 miles away, doing driving lessons so I can get to him every day. I’m the only family that will take anything to do with him and he has carers that visit him 3x a day but I feel it is unsafe for him to live alone now and I just don’t know what to do or who to speak to. Waiting for social services to re-evaluate his state. Would really appreciate any advice or feedback from people who have been in a similar position. Thanks