Every day for the past couple of weeks or more OH has talked about going to "his folks" for Christmas and Hogmanay. He is convinced that they only live a few miles away ( they are no longer alive & when they were they lived 5,000 miles away!). Nothing I say will take his mind off the idea or distract him. Simply walking away makes no difference for when I return he simply starts again. He`s demanded I take him there, and when I come up with various excuses for not being able to I am just told that I am being ridiculous and he sulks! He is adamant that we go there every year, although he acknowledges we didn`t during the covid pandemic! He even took himself off for a walk yesterday as he was going" to find a directory with his parent`s telephone number" so he could phone his dad to ask him to come and pick us up!! He came back after half an hour, and simply sat on the settee and sulked like a child again. If I tried to speak to him I was told he was very upset I would not take him to his folks, and how upset they would be not seeing us. Unfortunately there are no family members or friends I can turn to as they have, in the main, drifted away, and those that do keep in contact occasionally live far away. I am dreading to-day and tomorrow.