Hi all
As many of you know my OH has been in a care home now for about a month
The move from a Mental Health unit went very well and he is in a very good, caring place. Yesterday I noticed yet another change in him. I visit everyday and most times he's no idea of who I am-but I can just about deal with that as I know it's not his fault and to be quite honest if his memory of me and home is lost that makes life easier for him as he's not asking for me or wanting to come home all of the time.
Yesterday he kept saying 'is this real' 'is this real' over and over. Anyone any idea what this means? He didn't appear to be distressed-just more confused.
He ate all of his lunch and the treats I always take in. I always say to him 'do you want me to visit tomorrow', and he normally says #yes'. Yesterday he answered 'that needs thinking about'-and that was one of the rare things I understood-but that's quite normal.
Should I be concerned?
Take care everyone and have good days if you can
Lyn T
As many of you know my OH has been in a care home now for about a month
The move from a Mental Health unit went very well and he is in a very good, caring place. Yesterday I noticed yet another change in him. I visit everyday and most times he's no idea of who I am-but I can just about deal with that as I know it's not his fault and to be quite honest if his memory of me and home is lost that makes life easier for him as he's not asking for me or wanting to come home all of the time.
Yesterday he kept saying 'is this real' 'is this real' over and over. Anyone any idea what this means? He didn't appear to be distressed-just more confused.
He ate all of his lunch and the treats I always take in. I always say to him 'do you want me to visit tomorrow', and he normally says #yes'. Yesterday he answered 'that needs thinking about'-and that was one of the rare things I understood-but that's quite normal.
Should I be concerned?
Take care everyone and have good days if you can
Lyn T