I've come to the decision that dad needs to have support from people other than me. Firstly so he can socialise more and secondly so that I can have a break. I had a lovely scenario playing out in my head where he could attend one of the local care homes that say they provide day care and respite, then further down the line, if/ when we need it, he'd be in a familiar place so moving to full time care would be fairly simple. All the places I've looked at seem adequate with friendly staff and clean environments. However, day care seems to mean sitting in front of a TV or simple craft activities which dad would despise, and respite means " if there's a bed available". I wanted to be able to take him somewhere where there would be conversation, physical activities and friendship. I need to be able to book a week's respite at a time that is convenient to us and can be planned for. Does anyone know how I might be able to find this type of service?