My lovely husband and my mom are both in care homes, both happy and settled although strangely both have sore eyes. Today I went to the office - I normally work just a few hours each week from home. Took 1.5 hours to get there, fairly pointless meeting and an hour to get home. I then went to see my husband. His eyes were less sore, he was his normal happy self for 40 minutes - better than he has been for a few days but then he got tired so I came away. I visit every day. So he is safe, content, happy. Why am I crying? I can barely see to type.