Mum needs diagnosis and care but will react angrily and not co-operate. Mum's memory has been getting worse for a long time and she clearly has symptoms consistent with Alzheimers. We have avoided seeking diagnosis up till now as mum hates her doctor and having dementia would be her worst nightmare. But now the situation has deteriorated. Following a bereavement mum came to stay with me and I was shocked at vulnerability and her lack of road sense or sense of danger. She resented me accompanying her to the shops to get the newspaper. Our relationship seemed to fall apart overnight and mum spent days shouting at me, telling me what a despicable daughter I am. She then went on hunger strike until she was taken home. Mum is now extremely vulnerable at home and a 2 hour journey from me and my brothers. One brother is taking her to the doctors today to initiate diagnosis. Mum will be livid...and more so when she finds her car licence is also being taken away. We have POA. We can't manage this on our own. Who should I contact for support?