hello everyone First time on the forum but iwould like to hear from other members how they cope when your loved one for the first time asks you the above question. In my case it happened when i returned from the kitchen after only 5 minutes. The question came from my wife of 58 years. She was diagnosed with mixed dementia/Alzheimers six months ago. She has gone to sleep now but I dread what she will say when she awakes.