Garnuft I screamed with laughter when I read you have to give your OH a Chinese burn, cheered me up no end and although my OH parents now sadly gone I might just try the burn thing for the sheer hell of it!
And I recently suggested that Mum's repeated escape attempts onto a potentially dangerous road might be the best way out. I was asked how I would explain myself to the poor car/bus/tractor driver who finished her off. Point taken.[/QUOTE said:
This would make me feel unhappy too.
You are never to be held responsible for what another person does.
A welfare attorney would need to inform the LA about the danger. They might decide to place a vulnerable adult in a CH
I think I know where you are coming from.
I have also pondered these questions, with my own future in mind.