Going into Care
My what a mine field ,
Did dad get into the care home ? I came back on here for some advice my husband is in respite at the moment and will be home Monday ,we have a 17 year age gab so i still have a few years to work i care for him with carers comming in twice a day to shower him and dress and undress him ,
although things are okish and im copping with respite as we have a teanage daughter studying for A leavels its very hard at times stress !!!!!!!!!!!,
My worry is if i cant cope and he has to go into ful time care ? we have a small morgage as we needed to do a few changes to the house,
Any way does any one know could i sell use all the house sale to down size and clear the morgage or do i have to stay here and try to find the morgage its until im 70 years old oh im 54 by the way and the house is in joint names as is the morgage,
but i would find it hard to run the house and pay a morgage on one income im not a high flyer,
We dont have savings to talk about ,
husband is 71 and had demeture lewy body ,
has any one else had these problems ?
My what a mine field ,
Did dad get into the care home ? I came back on here for some advice my husband is in respite at the moment and will be home Monday ,we have a 17 year age gab so i still have a few years to work i care for him with carers comming in twice a day to shower him and dress and undress him ,
although things are okish and im copping with respite as we have a teanage daughter studying for A leavels its very hard at times stress !!!!!!!!!!!,
My worry is if i cant cope and he has to go into ful time care ? we have a small morgage as we needed to do a few changes to the house,
Any way does any one know could i sell use all the house sale to down size and clear the morgage or do i have to stay here and try to find the morgage its until im 70 years old oh im 54 by the way and the house is in joint names as is the morgage,
but i would find it hard to run the house and pay a morgage on one income im not a high flyer,
We dont have savings to talk about ,
husband is 71 and had demeture lewy body ,
has any one else had these problems ?