Things have got worse with my family with my overseas brother hurling abusuve Shane On Us emails and banging on as usual about money which I personally feel is his main motivation. One aunt is fantastic and the other doesn’t speak to her sister or me. Mum is not terribly happy and recently with lockdown doesn’t understand why no one can visit. She remembers nor understands much. She says she is lonely but before lockdown I visted 3 times in a week and she did not remember any visits. She doesn’t remember any phone calls or about the virus. The home says she is happy most of the time but when she speaks to me it is all so negative . My aunt the good one spoke to her today and she was asking why she couldn’t live with her. She thinks I am on holiday all the time it is so mad I wonder if Phoebe calls make it worse . Can’t sleep as my aunt gave me chapter and verse about her call today. Should I just stop calling and call the home to check she is okay and not speak to her as it seems pointless