Mum died unexpectedly just before last Christmas. She was in a super Care Home for the last 2/3 months of her life. Before that. Mum was admitted into hospital last August, moved around to a couple of other places - all of which were so good to her. From her diagnosis, @2 years before, Mum was at home with Dad and my sister who has an alcohol problem.
Poor Mum had an awful time. She was neglected and not given the care she was entitled to, due to who she was living with. Various authorities became involved, but it was heartbreaking to see what was happening.
Since Mum’s death I’ve struggled so much. I still need some contact with Dad but I’m so full of anger and upset that it’s as if it’s eating me up! I’m trying so hard not to let it and to get on with life with my fabulous husband, but am really finding it difficult.
I’d so welcome any advice, just re how to cope.
Poor Mum had an awful time. She was neglected and not given the care she was entitled to, due to who she was living with. Various authorities became involved, but it was heartbreaking to see what was happening.
Since Mum’s death I’ve struggled so much. I still need some contact with Dad but I’m so full of anger and upset that it’s as if it’s eating me up! I’m trying so hard not to let it and to get on with life with my fabulous husband, but am really finding it difficult.
I’d so welcome any advice, just re how to cope.