Hi everyone,
I retired to look after my Mum with dementia and help my Dad who is 88 and just doesn’t get it!!
Mum gets nervous and says she annoys Dad so doesn’t want me to go anywhere, ever.
Dad gets cross and says he’s having a terrible time.
I live with them and spend my life calming things down. I do an odd day a week work and invariably get a phone call saying mum can’t cope.
I can’t freely do anything or go anywhere.
Dad has just told me I’m a useless waste of space because I didn’t know what set of keys he was asking about!!
Why do I bother?
Because I want to look after my Mum in the best way I can.
🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
I retired to look after my Mum with dementia and help my Dad who is 88 and just doesn’t get it!!
Mum gets nervous and says she annoys Dad so doesn’t want me to go anywhere, ever.
Dad gets cross and says he’s having a terrible time.
I live with them and spend my life calming things down. I do an odd day a week work and invariably get a phone call saying mum can’t cope.
I can’t freely do anything or go anywhere.
Dad has just told me I’m a useless waste of space because I didn’t know what set of keys he was asking about!!
Why do I bother?
Because I want to look after my Mum in the best way I can.
🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️