My oh, in early stages in mixed dementia , since telling him he had to home from work and stay in the house has changed into a controlling emotional manipulator, throwing abuse at his step kids. I feel I am in ockdown only with him , as I’m not aloud to spend anytime in the house with my kids 20 and 23 both stuck here aswell as 1 is back from uni, if my fone rings or I get a text it’s commented straight away , I know have to put in on quite.Is this normal??? We can’t reason with him at all, I’m having to stay in spare room 1st time ever,as I just can’t take anymore today .He keeps taking off in his van and putting us all at risk , my daughter rang a team today and all they said was contact police.I feel I have been abandoned here.