My husband, 86, has been getting increasingly confused lately. He keeps telling me he's soon going to be going home to Britain - which is where we've lived together for the last 30 years. According to him, he's in the Middle East (where he worked for some years before I met him, and where he was very happy). He also believes other people are living in our house - which they aren't. This isn't a problem much of the time, as he hardly ever actually goes out, but sometimes he does need to go to the doctor's or the hospital and doesn't know how to get there because 'he's not at home'.
Apart from that, a propensity for sleep and the odd bit of forgetfulness, he seems fine.
He refuses to talk to the doctor about this - principally because he believes he's right and it's me who is confused - and has said that I mustn't raise it with his doctor, either.
We've just had another blazing row about this: he was getting anxious about finding his way to the hospital and I pointed out that he knows where the bus stop is, etc. He got cross about my 'going on about where he is.'
I still work - and need to for financial and mental health reasons (I'm in my early 60s) - so I can't be with him all the time. Once he leaves the house, he can find his way to where he needs to go. Should I correct him, or should I just bite my tongue and leave him to his mental wanderings?
I'm sure there are others who've been through similar things with their loved ones and would appreciate any advice from your experience.
Apart from that, a propensity for sleep and the odd bit of forgetfulness, he seems fine.
He refuses to talk to the doctor about this - principally because he believes he's right and it's me who is confused - and has said that I mustn't raise it with his doctor, either.
We've just had another blazing row about this: he was getting anxious about finding his way to the hospital and I pointed out that he knows where the bus stop is, etc. He got cross about my 'going on about where he is.'
I still work - and need to for financial and mental health reasons (I'm in my early 60s) - so I can't be with him all the time. Once he leaves the house, he can find his way to where he needs to go. Should I correct him, or should I just bite my tongue and leave him to his mental wanderings?
I'm sure there are others who've been through similar things with their loved ones and would appreciate any advice from your experience.