I have not been here for a few weeks as my husband - with Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson's was taken to our local hospital late at night 6 weeks ago with suspected pneumonia and "spasms"
Sometime this week I have a meeting with Social Services and the discharge team. There is no way that I can cope with him at home despite the things that were in place before this happened i.e rails, wet room that was installed (at our expense) 2 weeks before this happened, carpets taken up for non slip floors.
What is the best way to tell them that I can't cope with him coming home, will the hospital tell them what they have to do to take him to the toilet (it takes 2 of them to take him there or move him to have a bowel movement). etc
We have more than the money Wales need for them to pay the care bill but only enough for a year.
Thanks for any help.
Sometime this week I have a meeting with Social Services and the discharge team. There is no way that I can cope with him at home despite the things that were in place before this happened i.e rails, wet room that was installed (at our expense) 2 weeks before this happened, carpets taken up for non slip floors.
What is the best way to tell them that I can't cope with him coming home, will the hospital tell them what they have to do to take him to the toilet (it takes 2 of them to take him there or move him to have a bowel movement). etc
We have more than the money Wales need for them to pay the care bill but only enough for a year.
Thanks for any help.